A Bowl Full of Lemons

Some of us were raised in homes where financial responsibility was modeled, but others of us have had to learn the hard way. If we want our children to start learning some of the financial principles that we may not have grasped until we were adults, it’s best to begin before bad habits become ingrained!

Here are a few basic guidelines for the journey:

• Start Early

As soon as your child starts asking for something with a price tag–which will very likely begin with spying a treat at a grocery store–it’s time to start talking about how money works! It’s a great launching pad for a simple discussion about the difference between a need and want and how the money you carry in your wallet and deposit at your bank has a purpose.

Once that child has learned to count, introduce him to coins and their value and teach him how to add up money. Make it real by using actual coins and bills for this!

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• Provide the means for them to have money to manage

Whether it’s “wages” they earn via chores, a small amount of weekly or monthly spending money, or whatever you decide is best for your family, it’s necessary for children to have actual money in hand in order to tangibly learn to manage it. The amount is not important (though it should be based at least partly on age), but having it in their possession is. Just as for us adults, seeing it come and go can be a powerful motivator.

• Develop a basic budget with them

Once the income is determined, help them to create a budget for where the money will go. The most common categories for kids include Give, Spend, and Save. Sometimes it’s helpful to break the Save category down further, such as in this example of possible percentages. These can definitely be tweaked as you see fit.

10% for giving

20% for short-term savings (for reaching a particular spending goal)

20% for long-term savings (for a major purchase, college, etc.)

50% for spending

• Give them a place to sort and keep their money

Whether it’s a wallet, a bank, or a set of labeled jars, provide a place for the money to be distributed by budget category as soon as it’s received. It’s a great idea to “pay” in a combination of bills and coins to make this easier.

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Some other activities that help to reinforce the value of money, needs vs. wants, and how to spend wisely include having children comparison-shop with you at the grocery store, assisting them in shopping sales and/or finding coupons for their own purchases, opening a savings account, discussing the family budget together, and refraining from advancing them funds. 🙂

And the very most important aspect of teaching kids to manage money? Your example. It’s hard to convince your child to spend only what’s budgeted if you’re always pulling out your credit card to pay. Children who don’t see their parents both saving and giving will not grasp the value of either one. If my husband and I are not making the effort to be the best possible stewards of our money, it’s going to be difficult to teach our children to do it! Perfection is not required here–just intentionality!

For those of us who grew up on Schoolhouse Rock, here’s a little money lesson in song to share with the next generation. 🙂
 
 

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Melissa Kaiserman

Melissa is passionate about people living within their means and becoming--and remaining--debt-free. She is the owner of A Time for Everything, which includes both a shop where she sells handmade cash envelope system wallets and accessories, and a blog where she writes about frugal living, creating, and life in general. She's been blogging since 2007 and making pretty wallets since 2011.

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